5 year plan

How do you plan your life? Do you have a plan for your life? Been reading a lot on how to plan your life and how you can execute that plan efficiently. I’m huge fan of Pastor Olumide Emmanuel who came to our church (Grace House Family Church) in the month of March. If you… Continue reading 5 year plan


The Thing About Being a Christian Single Woman

This is a blog post that requires me to be totally down-to-earth and honest. It’s a time for me to open up my heart and be as truthful as I possibly can. I want you to know that I’m just a regular woman, with regular struggles, and regular fears. My life is far from perfect… Continue reading The Thing About Being a Christian Single Woman


i have seen a lot of picture posts but this, this is so perfectly true of the unrelenting love of God. @theraphafoundation Abigail Phiri    


Debunking the myths: Setting Standards

So... Out of curiosity I went online to look at a couple of dating sites. Jaded but a little curious at what I would find. After an hour of filling out several questionnaires, I’m told,’there are no matches for you right now. Widen your field by being more general in your requirements for a man’.… Continue reading Debunking the myths: Setting Standards



So it seemed that it was cool, for everyone to be in a relationship but me. So I took matters into my own hands and…ended up with him. Him, who displayed the characteristics of a cheater, a liar, an abuser and a thief, So why was I surprised when he broke into my heart? I… Continue reading I WILL WAIT…


Debunking the myths

Enter Christian single mother of two looking for companion I roll my eyes at all my friends who ask, “Such a pretty girl like you..? Why are you still single?” As if getting the ideal mate would be a walk in the park... (smirk) I am 34 years old, a mother of two and have… Continue reading Debunking the myths


Walk away

Some men can be so toxic for your health. They don’t want to love you properly, but don’t want to let you go either. The more you give, the less they appreciate, and the minute you’ve had enough and decide to walk away is when they are ready to love you and treat you right.… Continue reading Walk away


Simple truths..

A man showing anger and persistence to get you back once you try to break it off isn’t proof of your love; it’s a knee jerk reaction. A man sucking up to you and making flaccid attempts to be nicer for two weeks isn’t proof that he is trying, its proof that he knows how… Continue reading Simple truths..


The sad truth is…

You need a man who will commit and love you right at all times not only when you decide to walk away. He sabotages the relationship by being distant, unreliable, lying and or cheating because he is afraid of commitment. Grown men don’t play games, string you along or entertain any other women. You will… Continue reading The sad truth is…


I’m not my hair…

“I Am Not My Hair” Little girl with the press and curl Age eight I got a Jheri curl Thirteen and I got a relaxer I was a source of so much laughter At fifteen when it all broke off Eighteen and went all natural February two thousand and two I went on and did,… Continue reading I’m not my hair…